Hey, I'm

Kaley.

Are you tired of hearing that you just need to keep on going, try harder and do more? Are you tired of all the doing that you lost your sense of direction for your life and more importantly, that connection with yourself?

What if I told you that this toxic positivity and toxic productivity is a real thing. And especially in this day and age where your life can be out there for the whole world to see. And instant gratification and validation seems the norm. Do more so you can be more… Working your *ss off is seen as a badge of honor. And you have now realized that. 

I will guide you in to being more, so you can do and have more of what you truly want. Move away from survival mode and get into creating and living a life of more ease, fulfillment, joy and alignment with your personal core values. 

When it comes to being coached I sincerely believe it is all about you, what you need. At the end of the day it is your life that we are seeking to deepen and transform by uncovering and getting rid of all the layers that no longer serve you.

I am here to facilitate that process and guide you to all that is already within you.

In life, falling into patterns and habits that on the surface look like they are good, may not actually be serving you on the long haul. Waking up to life that is good, but is it also good for you? Creating a life by default.

Knowing what makes you tick in the form of  identifying your core values is one of the most important ways to start any transformational journey. These core values serve as your guideline to keep you aligned to what is true to you and your desires. 

During my training at The Transformational Embodiment Institute I was taught a fun and very effective values elicitation process. When you decide to work with me, we will go through this process together and I will guide you from start to finish. 

However if you want to get started now, I provided this very powerful process as a freebee that you can access and start right now!

Work with me

As your life coach, creating a space that works for you and supports your transformation is what I am here for and what is at the centre of us working together.

That being said, nothing works unless you do. Your success and transformation is a combination of finding what works for you, connecting with the right coach and most importantly your attitude towards being coached and doing the work. If you are looking for fixed, guaranteed promises and quick fixes. I am not the coach for you. I believe in doing the work and where necessary digging deep, believing that there is always a way and never giving up. 

When you decide you are ready, after our initial acquaintance we will work on defining what it is you want to work on. This however may change during our time together as it sometimes happens that subjects arise that need more attention. 

As a Transformational Embodiment Coach I am trained in multiple modalities to provide a more holistic approach to your journey. Real transformation is not just a mental facet, through different practices e.g breath work, EFT, you will be able to create lasting embodied changes.

The coaching provided is virtual, 1:1 and over the course of a minimum of 3 months. Within these 3 months you will have direct access to me through at least 7 1hr Virtual Video Calls, 6 Voxer half days and unlimited email.

 

" I have learned that you should not go through life with a catchers mitt on both hands. You need to be able to throw something back"
- Maya Angelou -

Kaley Chaibva

Life Coach for heart centered souls that are ready to transform their life. With my own personal history of intense growth work and transformation. I have been through several traumatic and challenging times in my life as well as decades of deep inner work. This through counseling, therapy, training, coaching and life itself. This all makes me unique and highly capable of coaching you with dedication and authenticity.

My joy in this work is to see you shine as the bright light that you are! Always meeting you where you are and expanding your awareness from there and beyond.
There is always a way. From a young age I was always described as being solution focused and not one to give up easily. Qualities that have enriched my private and professional life tremendously.

For a good 17 years I was a flight attendant at KLM. This year I decided to leave my job as a Purser (chief flight attendant). After nearly two decades of flying around the world, visiting the most amazing and unexpected places, I felt it was time to live a different life. I longed for more freedom, more fulfillment, more autonomy and in a way more structure. It was one of the hardest decisions I have ever had to make. Ask anyone in the airline industry, it is not a job, it is a lifestyle.

I am so grateful for all the wonderful years I had up in the skies and foreign places. Learning special skills, meeting new people, eating delicious foods, living out of my suitcase and being jet lagged. I appreciate it all. It all adds to the enrichment of my life and me as a person.

Fun Facts:
* I was born in Zimbabwe
* I have several sailing certificates
* I know how to both ski and snowboard (I prefer the latter)
* I love anything with words: reading, listening, talking & writing
* I am fluent in English and Dutch
* I also speak French
* I used to be a tourist for a living
* I love to cook
* I am very sensitive for injustice
* I am kind of afraid of creepy crawlies
* I have a subscription to the movie theatre
* I am an Advanced Open Water Diver
* I may not be very tall, yet I have big dreams for myself and the collective

" The best is yet to come and something greater awaits me"
- BlessedAsIAm -

How it all began

BlessedAsIAm stared out as a blog in 2015 as a way for me to get out of a downward spiral I kept finding myself in. In writing I found an outlet to better word and understand all that was going on in my heart, mind and body. From the start I have always been open about my childhood traumatic experiences. One of which being sexually abused for nearly a decade until I was about 13 years old. Even with all that I had been through, I believed and still believe that I am Blessed, just the way I am. And so are you!

Over the years I had been in and out of counseling and therapy. Trying so many different types to help me cope with whatever was going inside of me. However I always found myself back at that place of exhaustion from all the doing and quite frankly running away. I never felt fully understood. And if I was getting help that felt good, it always felt as if it barely scratched the surface.

This is until I hit one of my lowest lows almost 4 years ago. It seemed like I had it all. The house, the job, the material things and the social life. Yet I never felt so down, empty, exhausted and powerless. I came to the point where I felt like there was no way out other than ending my life. Even though deep down my life mantras " The best is yet to come" and " Something greater awaits you", were still there, I was on the verge of giving up.

I was no longer fit to do my job, or anything for that matter. I was afraid to leave my house. Being outside, in an other environment than my own home was more stimuli than I could handle. For months my daily routine was moving from my bed to the couch and back again. Numbing myself with Netflix, food and alcohol. I believe I saw all of Breaking Bad in one weekend.

My way back up started on YouTube, when I stumbled across a video on personal development. From that moment I was hooked. Learning about how to grow, to quantum physics, law of attraction to stoicism. Learning from spiritual teachers and scientist. I really immersed myself in anything that could help me better understand my mind and how I got where I got.

Together with being diagnosed with ComplexPTSD and Clinical Depression with suicidal thoughts, I finally got the specialized treatment that I needed.

With all my personal experience and drive to understand and optimize our human experience, I knew that I could help many others find their way back to being their truest and highest expression of self. In 2020 I started as a freelance lifestyle coach for a fitness and wellness brand. I successfully guided dozens of clients towards their goals. Simultaneously I was building my own Life Coach practice. And in the summer of 2021 I graduated as a Transformational Embodiment Coach at the Transformational Embodiment Institute.

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